
Temperance’s Upright & Reversed Meanings
Ideas: Breakup, extremes, opposite
Traits: Disruptive, impatient, intolerant, restrained, uncooperative, unrestrained
Emotions: Annoyance, disappointment, enthusiasm, exhilaration, frustration, pleasure, unhappiness
Actions:
- Allowing or denying yourself to enjoy a particular pleasure
- Doing an activity more or less
- Going solo
- Letting your emotions out
- Pursuing or stopping your favorite activities
- Separating yourself from others
Ideas: Blending, combination, harmony, mediation, synthesis
Traits: Balanced, calm, conciliatory, cooperative, creative, healthy, moderate, modest, patient, tolerant
Emotions: Contentment, gladness, relief, satisfaction, tenderness
Actions:
- Bringing opposites together
- Finding middle ground
- Moderating your actions or emotions
- Reaching compromises
- Synthesizing solutions that please everyone involved
- Using the old to make something new
Ideas: Abstinence, avoidance, numbness
Traits: Cowardly, inhibited, passive, repressed, rigid, strict, timid
Emotions: Apprehension, neglect, nervousness, uneasiness
Actions:
- Avoiding conflict
- Brushing off the problem
- Failing to take care of your emotional needs
- Numbing your emotions
- Refraining from indulging
- Refusing to discuss a difficult issue
Temperance’s Advice

Personal Growth
Young people want to toss out tradition and forge ahead. Older people are more conservative. Between these extremes lies a healthier middle ground. Define the polarities and then ask, “What lies between?”

Relationship
Set superficial relationships aside. Pursue trust and deep intimacy—the subtle blending of two people into one. Bring people together. Commit to introductions, parties, or gatherings. Seek out groups.

Career
Many hands make work easier. Call meetings. Get input from every level at every step. If everyone has a hand in defining an effort, then everyone will feel ownership and investment. Moderate your tendency towards all-or-nothing work habits.

Spirituality
Some spiritual advisors recommend extreme practices, from fasting to abstinence, as a means of boosting spiritual awareness. Consider the potential value of moderation in all things. You can value what is right here, right now, without craving more or surpassing healthy limits.
Temperance’s Symbols & Insights
The Square and Triangle
In many Rider–Waite–Smith-inspired decks, a symbol on the angel’s chest suggests the fiery spirit enshrined in stable matter. What meaning do your possessions have beyond their physical value?
The Blended Cups
Temperance often pours the contents of two cups together, blending water, water and wine, wine and milk, or even fire and water. How might blending two opposites resolve your challenge today?
Land and Water
Occult decks frequently draw Temperance with one foot on stable land and one foot in emotional water. A dive-in-or-get-off-the-dock approach assumes extremes are the only options. Are they?
Irises
The flowers seen in Rider–Waite–Smith-inspired illustrations suggest their namesake, Iris, the goddess of the rainbow. What would happen if you reduced your situation to its most basic components, as a rainbow breaks down white light?
More About Temperance Tarot Card
- Fortunetellings
- Someone’s using drugs or alcohol to excess.
- It’s time to get back on that diet.
- Timing
- Between and
- Affirmation
- I am able to find balance and harmony in all areas of my life.
- Archetype
- The mediator
- Hebrew Alphabet
- Samekh/Foundation/60
- Numerology Number
- 14 = 1 + 4 = 5
(the catalyst: instability, resistance, confrontation, evolution) - Astrology Element
- Fire
- Astrology Sign
- Sagittarius
- Myths/Spirits
- The angel seen here may be the goddess Iris
- By extension, priests, priesthoods, or the transfigured Christ
- Storyline
- The main character learns to moderate impulses or habits that limit his or her ability to solve the story’s central problem.
- Questions to Ask
- How can I avoid extremes?
- What does everyone involved have in common?
- How might combining familiar things help me create something new?
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