Ideas: Pardon, re-evaluation, silver lining
Traits: Adaptable, conciliatory, flexible, forgiving, rational, realistic, sane, tolerant
Emotions: Hope, nervousness, optimism, relief, sentimentality, uneasiness
Ideas: Apology, healthy grief, loss, uncertainty
Traits: Emotional, empathetic, honest, honorable, humble, respectful, solemn
Emotions: Compassion, embarrassment, guilt, sadness, shame, sorrow, unhappiness
Ideas: Fear of failure, self-pity, unhealthy grief
Traits: Discouraging, fatalistic, moody, obsessive, repentant, self-critical, unrealistic
Emotions: Despair, fear, gloom, grief, hopelessness, regret, remorse, pity, sympathy, woe
Perspective is everything. Each of us is predisposed to focus on the positive or the negative; if you tend towards the latter, condition yourself to be more optimistic by reviewing how apparently dark events of the past gave rise to greater strength or insight.
Maintaining an affair with memories of past lovers will prevent you from appreciating lovers in the here and now. Burned by past friends or partners? Thank them for the lesson learned and offer your heart to those who deserve your affection.
You can’t look back. The “good old days” have given way to the “here and now,” and it’s time to adjust your efforts accordingly. If you made mistakes, admit them, pick up the pieces, and return to work with renewed effort. Don’t focus on losses; define new goals.
Your faith, at first, may seem like “cold comfort” in times of loss. But if you accept that all things unfold according to a larger pattern, you must look for the role this loss plays in the grand scheme of things. Three cups remain upright. What do you still have to be thankful for?
Three Cups Down, Two Cups Up
Tradition leads many artists to draw this card with three Cups overturned and two still standing. The outcome (three) of your emotional or spiritual effort may be disappointing, but now it’s time to focus on achieving a new sense of unity (two) elsewhere.
The Posture of Defeat
This card often depicts a cloaked figure with slumped shoulders. How is your current mood reflected in your posture? If your demeanor changed, might your mood change along with it?
Do you focus on loss, or on the opportunity inherent in change? Do you grieve for the way things were or do you reassess your situation and adapt to it? How might this insight help you in your own situation?
The Marseilles Image
Growth continues (loss forces growth!), but the garden’s getting cramped. How can you balance the need for emotional stability with the fact that time is marching on?